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How can a grieving person really know that there
is an afterlife and their loved one is happy?
We are so fortunate
to be living in this time when there is an explosion of
information available about what REALLY happens when you
die. There
are many people and organisations that can help those who
are grieving to realise that death is not the end of relationship
with our loved one and that they continue to exist on a
different frequency.
1) Traditional grief support organisations and counseling
can offer you encouragement, support and
advice through the grieving process. They will not tell
you what to do or how you should be feeling, but they may
put forward ideas and strategies to help you cope. However
they will not encourage any discussion of the afterlife.
2) The Forever Family Foundation was
started in the USA by parents who were attending a grief
support group and were forced to talk about their readings
with mediums in the carpark.
4) For child loss Download
a free copy of Sheri Perl's
The Grieving Parents' Handbook compiled by parents who have lost children answering
all the questions that frequently come up like Why me?
Is it My fault? How can I live with this? and join Sheri's The
Prayer Registry.
5 ) Watch Susanne Giesemann's video Messages
of Hope
6) Learn about the different types
of after death communication Be
aware that grief makes it harder for your loved one to
get through to you. Try to think of them as having gone
to another country where they will be having a wonderful
time. Send them your love and wishes for their happiness.
7) Join
Facebook and join one of our moderated discussion
groups
where people are actively sharing their experiences of exploring
the evidence for the afterlife:
10) Talk to your loved ones as if they can hear you -
they can.
11) Try to slow your mind down to be more receptive. Learn
to meditate. As a start
try and sit for 5 minutes morning and night just breathing
deeply and focusing on your breath.
Among
Mediums: A scientists Quest for Answers
Following the suicide of her mother and an evidential
mediumship reading, Dr. Julie Beischel forfeited a potentially
lucrative career in the pharmaceutical industry to pursue
rigorous scientific research with mediums full-time. Among
Mediums is an accessible, bite-sized review of her 10-year
journey and the answers she discovered along the way.
Read
more...
Susanne Wilson's Soul
Smart "If
you are new to world of mediumship, browsing for a good
read, or a well seasoned traveler on this journey of who
we are, there is something for you in this well written
book. Susanne's presentation is like taking a class to
learn about soul communication. She not only presents
her life story that brought her to develop her natural
mediumship, she also has stories of validations in readings
and signs by spirit, synchronistic events, how to recognize
spirit guides and angels in your life, dream visits, tips
and techniques to make your own connections with loved
ones." Buy
book
Love
knows no Death
This workbook is an essential part of an innovative approach
to grief transformation. This counseling approach, which
integrates both written and video lessons, reflects an
“unbelievable truth” that the human mind,
consciousness and personality do not end with the death
of the physical body. In other words, your deceased love
one is not, in fact, deceased.
15) Go to a live platform demonstration with a medium.
In NSW Australia Louise Hermann gives regular meetings
along the coast for a $10 donation.Read
more..
16) Book a Session with Voices
Across the Veil
Voices Across the Veil is an afterlife research program
which has vacancies in online small group session (maximum
6 people) with a tested medium. For US $40 you are guaranteed
an individual reading of at least 15 minutes. You can
join from anywhere in the world with an internet connection.
You will be invited to join a short interview after the
reading with a researcher to give feedback on your reading.
This contributes to our growing database of afterlife
knowledge. There are several different mediums who do
readings and you can try a different one on a different
occasion. The program has an 85% satisfaction rating.
Read
more...
17) Listen to one of the many series
of interviews with afterlife researchers and mediums.
18) Watch the videos of Swedenborg
and Life
"I’ve found a YouTube channel
that if you have a belief in the afterlife it can be quite
comforting. Well I found it so anyway. This is the channel
“Off
the left eye.”
19) Engage a therapist
to have a Repair and Reattachment Grief Therapy session.
How to find a good medium
A psychic reads your aura and tells you
possible future trends. They may not connect with spirit
at all. A medium has this ability but is also able to
go to a different vibration and actually feel, hear or
see the spirit of the deceased.
There are some very dishonest people who pretend to be
psychics to defraud people. These are fairly easy to spot.
They are usually backyard operators. They tell you you
have a curse around you and you need to give them your
money or possessions to be "cleansed" and they
ask you to keep coming back to them regularly.
However there are also some
very genuine people who are not dishonest, but have not
had sufficient training or development to really connect
with the spirit world and hold the connection. They may
really think that they are getting information from a
spirit but they are reading your aura - or their own imagination.
They ask you lots of questions and give you a lot of vague
things that could apply to anyone e.g. "They are
telling me that you've been under a lot of stress...have
a few health problems...are thinking about travel ling.."
Having
a reading with someone like this can be very disappointing.
If you find after 10 minutes that the information they
are giving you is totally vague or way off, stop the reading
and ask for your money back.
So it is important to find a genuine medium who has passed
some kind of accreditation or is recommended to you. This
may mean having to join a waiting list as really good
mediums are highly vlaued.
Online readings give you a wider
choice
You can book a consultation with a genuine recommended
medium who lives anywhere in the world via Skype or phone
or an online meeting platform. This is just as effective
as a face to face reading and allows you a much wider
choice.
The going rate in The US and Australia is between $100
and $150 US. Some mediums especially in the UK charge
less and highly gifted and celebrity mediums may charge
more.
If you join a grief group or afterlife discussion group
on Facebook you will usually find people who are only
too happy to share details of mediums who gave them a
good reading. You can ask the group moderators for suggestions.
But beware of people frequent the group touting for readings.
Spiritualist churches are another good source of referrals.
And these days you will be surprised how many of your
friends, workmates and relatives have been to see a medium
and only mention it if the topic is raised.
Organisations that recommend mediums
If you can't find a personally recommended medium choose
one recommended by a reputable organisation.
Here is a video showing how mediums at the Arthur Findlay
college are trained to give evidence.
How
to assess a reading.
The key thing about a good reading is 1) specific evidence
that identifies the communicator and 2) whether an emotional
connection was achieved. Did you feel a re-connection with
the person, a resolution of blockages, a feeling of love?
Did you get the feeling that the person in spirit is happy
and wants you to be happy as well? A good reading should
significantly reduce your grief.
24) Attend a meeting of IANDS
where you can listen to people’s first hand NDEs.
25) Try contacting your loved one via EVP
Sheri Perl is doing wonderful work on teaching parents to
contact their children via EVP. Here
are her instructions.
26) You may like to have a past life regression. Here Brian
Weiss takes you through a hypnotic regression.
28) Many people find the Monroe Institute Programs very
helpful http://www.monroeinstitute.org/
(hint you can buy some of the CDs and do the programs from
home).
29) A number of people claim to have been able to reunite
with loved ones in the afterlife in full waking consciousness
having out of body experiences.
Bob Peterson in a 40 year veteran researcher who has his
own techniques and also has researched those of leading
out of body writers.
4) For child loss Download
a free copy of Sheri Perl's 
Buy
on amazon.com 
Among
Mediums: A scientists Quest for Answers 
"If
you are new to world of mediumship, browsing for a good
read, or a well seasoned traveler on this journey of who
we are, there is something for you in this well written
book. Susanne's presentation is like taking a class to
learn about soul communication. She not only presents
her life story that brought her to develop her natural
mediumship, she also has stories of validations in readings
and signs by spirit, synchronistic events, how to recognize
spirit guides and angels in your life, dream visits, tips
and techniques to make your own connections with loved
ones." 
This workbook is an essential part of an innovative approach
to grief transformation. This counseling approach, which
integrates both written and video lessons, reflects an
“unbelievable truth” that the human mind,
consciousness and personality do not end with the death
of the physical body. In other words, your deceased love
one is not, in fact, deceased. 
program
which has vacancies in online small group session (maximum
6 people) with a tested medium. For US $40 you are guaranteed
an individual reading of at least 15 minutes. You can
join from anywhere in the world with an internet connection.
You will be invited to join a short interview after the
reading with a researcher to give feedback on your reading.
This contributes to our growing database of afterlife
knowledge. There are several different mediums who do
readings and you can try a different one on a different
occasion. The program has an 85% satisfaction rating.
