COMMENTARY: END OF LIFE EXPERIENCES
In all cultures, more than 50% of the people who are conscious while dying say that they see their deceased loved ones waiting for them. Sometimes they say that they can see beautiful places in the spirit world and hear beautiful music.
There are several cases on record with the Society of Psychical Research where the spirit visitors were seen by others at the bedside of the dying person, occasionally by several persons at the same time:
• in one well-documented case a death-bed apparition was seen by the dying woman, Harriet Pearson, and three relatives who were caring for her (Journal of the Society for Psychical Research Feb 1904: 185-187)
• in another case of a young boy dying, two witnesses independently saw his recently deceased mother at the child's bedside (Proceedings of the Society for Psychical Research, Volume 6 p.20 ).
Since the 1960s these "deathbed visions" have been widely studied, often by hospice nurses and doctors who are well aware of them. However, there is another aspect of end-of-life experiences that has only begun to be studied since 2011. These are "shared-death experiences" in which a person accompanies the dying person on their transition, witnessing their "welcome home celebration" and sometimes even witnessing their life review.
SCOTT
TAYLOR'S SHARED DEATH EXPERIENCE Dr. Scott Taylor recounts his shared-death experience at the 2014 Conference for the International Association for Near-Death Studies.
THE SHARED CROSSING PROJECT
In 2011 William Peters, M. Ed, MFT, started the Shared Crossing Project whose mission is to positively transform relationships to death and dying through education and raising awareness about shared crossings and their healing benefits.
OUT-OF-BODY EXPERIENCES AND THE AFTERLIFE LANDSCAPE
Robert Monroe wrote three major books giving meticulous details about his OBEs. He described many different locations outside the body that he claims are worlds we may go to when we die. One of these is "The Park" which is sometimes described by those helping souls to transition.
SOUL COMPANION - A MEMOIR
Towards the end of Judy Hilyard's 47-year career in critical care nursing, she learned to be an Anam Cara, a soul friend, offering extraordinary counseling to provide a peaceful death for others. In her book Soul Companion: A Memoir she explains how that led her to the ancient role of Anam Aira, one who can share the death experience of others at will. Judy set out to learn how to cross the Veil between physical life and death to assist souls in their transition. She did this by completing three residential programs at the Monroe Institute, in Faber, Virginia. Judy has been doing Anam Aira work for several years, helping hundreds of people—those about to pass over to the Other Side, those already there, and those still here in physical form. Judy will be our guest on the Zoom Global Gathering this coming Sunday at 3 p.m. Eastern time. https://zoom.us/j/7595442928
MEDIUM JOHN HOLLAND ON DEATHBED VISIONS
John writes: "Even my mom had a Deathbed Vision toward the end of her life. One day, she was sitting up in her hospital bed, quite coherent, and said quite excitedly, 'Johnny! Guess who came to see me today for a visit?' I started reeling off name after name of different people in her life that I could think of. All she kept saying was, 'Nope, nope . . . Nope!' Finally, she blurted out, 'Wayne came to visit!'
Wayne was her first love who’d passed some 25 years ago. 'What did he want?' I asked her quietly, sitting down on the bed to hold her hand. She went on to tell me how she’d seen him sitting at the end of her bed in his sailor uniform, handsome and young as she remembered him. He told her that he was checking in on her to see how she was and that everything was going to be okay." Read more.
RUSSELL TARG SHARES HOW HE BECAME CONVINCED THAT HIS DAUGHTER ELIZABETH HAD SURVIVED DEATH Russell Targ, a laser physicist, cofounded the remote viewing research program at SRI International. He is the author and coauthor of several books about nonlocal consciousness and psychic functioning. After his daughter Elisabeth Targ died, several people received communications from Elisabeth, particularly Russell's writing partner, and close friend of Elisabeth, Jane Katra. He tells Jeffrey Mishlove that it was one particular message that finally convinced him of the reality of Elisabeth's post-mortem survival.
COMMUNICATING WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER WHO HAS TRANSITIONED
For those who do not know the research literature, it is often a surprise to learn that it is very common for a person to be in active contact with a partner who has transitioned. Dr. W.D. Rees, a British physician found that of a sample of widows in Wales, forty- seven percent had experiences—often repeatedly over many years—that convinced them that their dead husbands had been in contact with them (Rees 1971: 37-41). An earlier British experiment by Dr. P. Marris (1958) had found a figure of fifty percent. Dr. Melvin Morse, a pediatrician who has done many studies of death and dying, claims that it is rare for someone to lose a child and not see them again in a death-related vision (Morse 1994:135).
DR. JAMIE TURNDORF ON 'LOVE NEVER DIES'
Jamie talks about the false belief that we have to wait until we die to reconnect with our loved ones in spirit. She explains how her husband (a former Jesuit priest) has been in close communication with her since the moment he died. Jamie's book "Love Never Dies" explains how this communication can be used to reconnect, resolve unfinished business, and make peace with the deceased.
DR. CRAIG HOGAN'S SELF-GUIDED AFTERLIFE CONNECTIONS
Craig claims that "today, most people are able to have afterlife communication with loved ones who have crossed over." One of the most successful methods is Self-guided Afterlife Connections. It uses a procedure available free on the Internet that anyone can go through in their home, at any time. It is 86% successful in helping people have connections.
One of the participants in the early research study wrote:" As soon as I got to stage three, I was able to connect. I had clear visuals of my son in Spirit, Nick. I was also able to talk with him and feel him. We went to the Astral plane. We traveled to Eternity. Nick showed me things that I could never imagine. We talked about love and Eternity, soul plans, paths, etc." Read her endorsement.
LOVE AFTER LIFE
William J. Murray and Mary Beth Spann Mank claim that they have been able to overcome debilitating grief following the loss of their respective spouses, Irene and Paul. They have discovered ways to continue and extend their relationships with their much-loved partners, a subject which is the focus of their Facebook Group 'Love After Life' which now has almost two thousand members. .
HOSPICE NURSE JULIE GETTING THE MESSAGE OUT ON TIKTOK
Julie McFadden has been a hospice nurse for 7 years after more than 10 years as an ICU nurse. She wanted to find a way to open up conversations on death and dying. She considered creating a podcast or a blog but on a family visit, she discovered TikTok and decided that it was a quick and easy platform to get her message across. By adding Instagram as well, Julie has created a whole community of death doulas and hospice nurses, all with a common goal of opening conversations about death. The platform now has a following of 1.4 million subscribers. Watch videos.
An Evening with Spirit
Organised by Sydney Northern Beaches Spiritualists.
(3rd Friday of each month).
The meeting will follow a normal Spiritualist Church service format with a short address followed by a demonstration of spirit messages, or a guest speaker, or a discussion.
After the meeting, there will be time to share spiritual experiences and make new friends.
This week Wendy Zammit will give a presentation on the topic "What Happens When We Die and How Do We Know? with reference to:
1. Independent Direct voice mediumship
2. Automatic Writing
3. Instrumental Transcommunication (ITC)
4. Out of Body experiences
5. The best mental and trance mediumship
6. Organised communication from the highest spheres
Times:
Pacific time 12 midnight Thursday/Friday
Phoenix 1 a.m. Friday
Mountain time 1 a.m. Friday
London 8 a.m. Friday
Singapore 4 p.m. Friday
Perth 4 p.m. Friday
Sydney 7 p.m. Friday
Auckland 9 p.m. Friday Check time in your city
https://zoom.us/j/5562413788
Contact Paul Hinson
Advall@iinet.net.au
The meeting is free of charge but donations are gratefully accepted to defray church running costs
Local Donations to BSB 484-799; A/C No. 165 648 823
Overseas Donations - Swift Code METWAU4B
PayPal – Use NBSC2024@gmail.com
Saturday
February 17th, 2024/ Sunday February 18th Spiritist Literature: Directed Study with Ana Castro. (SLIDS)
A free Zoom group about Spiritism, Kardec, and Chico Xavier. See videos of previous meetings
Times:
Pacific time 1 p.m. Saturday
Phoenix time 2 p.m. Saturday
Mountain time 2 p.m. Saturday
Central time 3 p.m. Saturday
Eastern time 4 p.m. Saturday
London 9 p.m. Saturday
Rome 10 p.m. Saturday
Sydney/Melbourne 8 a.m. Sunday
New Zealand 10 a.m. Sunday
Check time in your city
Co-ordinator: Ana Castro
Just click this link to join.
Sunday
February 18th, 2024/ Monday February 19th Australia
Global Gathering: Our guest this week is Judy Hilyard, R.N. M.N., who will talk about her experiences as an Anam Aira, and her memoir, Soul Companion. Judy learned how to cross the veil between physical life and death to assist souls in their transition. She has been doing Anam Aira work for several years, helping hundreds of people—those about to pass over to the Other Side, those already there, and those still here in physical form.
Times:
Pacific Time noon Sunday
Phoenix 1 p.m. Sunday
Mountain Time 1 p.m. Sunday
Central time 2 p.m. Sunday
Eastern time 3 p.m. Sunday
London 8 p.m. Sunday
Vienna 9 p.m. Sunday
Sydney/Melbourne 7 a.m. Monday
New Zealand 9 a.m. Monday
Check time in your city
Co-ordinator: wendyzammit@gmail.com https://zoom.us/j/7595442928
Monday
February 19th, 2024/ Tuesday February 20th Australia
GOSH: Gatherings over Strange Happenings with Kim Parker
When: Every two weeks on Mondays (UK EUROPE and USA) and Tuesdays 7 a.m. (Sydney). A small group that meets to share and explore the meaning of strange experiences like missing time, seeing scenes from another time, interacting with a person who suddenly wasn't there, bi-location, etc. If it's something you cannot share easily with others, bring it to this group to get validation and speculate on its cause. See a short video about GOSH
Times:
Pacific Time noon Monday
Phoenix 1 p.m. Monday
Mountain Time 1 p.m. Monday
Central time 2 p.m. Monday
Eastern time 3 p.m. Monday
London 8 p.m. Monday
Amsterdam 9 p.m. Monday
Sydney/Melbourne 7 a.m. Tuesday
New Zealand 9 a.m. Tuesday Check the time for your city
Email: Kim at kmrainbow57@yahoo.com https://zoom.us/j/7595442928
Tuesday, February 20th Australia Every Tuesday night in Australia/ Tuesday morning UK and Europe
Australian-based Physical Mediumship Development Circle (Dark Circle)
Every week participants interested in trying to assist in the development of physical mediumship sit in a darkened space in their own homes for 40 minutes, relax, and listen to music. This is a long-term project and participants must be prepared to sit in harmony without much seeming to happen on the surface.
Times:
Pacific time 1 a.m. Tuesday
Phoenix time 2 a.m. Tuesday
Mountain Time 2 a.m. Tuesday
Central Time 3 a.m. Tuesday
Eastern Time (New York) 4 a.m. Tuesday
London 9 a.m. Tuesday
Rome 10 a.m. Tuesday
Perth/Singapore 5 p.m. Tuesday
Sydney Australia 8 p.m. Tuesday
Auckland 10 p.m. Tuesday Check time in your city
Email Paul Hinson Advall@iinet.net for more information
Wednesday February 21st, 2024 / Thursday February 22nd Australia
Automatic Writing and Mediumship ETC. Discussion with
Sheila Lowe
Share resources and discuss what participants are experiencing
1st and 3rd Wednesdays.
Times:
Pacific Time 5.30 p.m. Wednesday
Phoenix 6.30 p.m. Wednesday
Mountain time 6.30 p.m. Wednesday
Central time 7.30 p.m. Wednesday
Eastern Time 8.30 p.m. Wednesday
London time 1.30 a.m. Thursday
Perth 9.30 a.m. Thursday
Sydney/ Melbourne 12.30 p.m. Thursday
New Zealand 2.30 p.m. Thursday Check time in your city
Coordinator: Sheila Lowe sheila@sheilalowe.com
[if the room is not open email Sheila]
Wednesday February 14th, 2024 / Thursday February 15th Australia
USA-based Physical Mediumship Development Group
Every Wednesday with Rob Blackburn and Craig Hogan. Participants sit in a darkened space in their own homes; the group has been going for some time and members are experiencing phenomena.
THIS GROUP IS CURRENTLY TAKING NEW MEMBERS
Times:
Pacific 6 p.m. Wednesday
Arizona 7 p.m. Wednesday
Mountain time 7 p.m. Wednesday
Central time 8 p.m. Wednesday
New York time 9 p.m. Wednesday
London 2 a.m. Thursday
Perth 10 a.m. Thursday
Sydney/Melbourne 1 p.m. Thursday
New Zealand 3 p.m. Thursday Check time in your city
Email r.craig.hogan@afterlifeinstitute.org for meeting guidelines,
Sheri Perl's Healing, Loss, Bereavement and Connecting-Up---Exploring Electronic Voice Phenomenon
This group usually meets on the last Thursday of the month at 3 p.m.
but has been cancelled for February.
A CONNECTION FORGED THROUGH KINDNESS
Here's one for the horse lovers. A beautiful story of love and trust between Emma and Mikko, a wild horse that she rescued. Where others thought he was too much trouble, her patience and kindness have led to an amazing bond.
DEFENDING YOUR LIFE 'Defending Your Life' is a 1991 romantic comedy-fantasy film about a man who dies and arrives in the afterlife only to find that he must stand trial and justify his lifelong fears in order to advance to the next phase of life, or be sent back to earth to do it again. Daniel and the rest of the recently deceased are offered many Earth-like amenities and activities in the city while they undergo their judgment processes—from all-you-can-eat restaurants (which cause no weight gain and serve the best food) to bowling alleys and comedy clubs.
1) In all my readings, this is exactly what the "deceased" are trying to tell us. They still exist. They are still very much alive - just in a different energy form. Why do some people have such a hard time believing this??? This is really what happens! Read books by Anabela Cardoso and her messages from ITC. You WILL believe. Regina
2) Your coverage of events in your Friday Report continues to amaze me. What a gift to us all! Stafford Betty
3)
One of our favourite feedback emails of all time came from from Bob in Canada in 2019. He wrote:
"Thank you so very much for the extremely informative afterlife reports over the past several years. They have definitely changed my life for the better knowing what the future holds after we transition from this life.
Also, through your site, I became familiar with the 'Spiritual Light' book which has been a real blessing. Just thought you might like to know that I have had a thousand business-type cards printed over the past three years titled "The Afterlife Fact Or Fiction" The Objective Evidence For The Afterlife Has Nothing To Do With Religion Or Personal Belief with www.victorzammit.com at the bottom and so far have given out and put on bulletin boards over 800. They all seem to be taken when I go back.
I love to talk to anyone who will listen as I had many personal experiences when my wife crossed over nearly four years ago. I used to talk to her about the afterlife and she would always say she did not really believe in the reality of it. After she crossed, I had many personal experiences with her around the house, and upon going to a qualified medium after describing her appearance perfectly, she said that Lorraine wanted me to know that I was absolutely right about the afterlife and that it was so beautiful there.
Thanks Again And Keep Up The Fantastic Work"
Bob (Canada)
PS: "Spiritual Light" is the most beautiful and uplifting book I have ever read."
INSPIRATIONAL MUSIC: "TRY A LITTLE KINDNESS"
An oldie but a great song to have rattling around in your memory banks as you go about your day. What a talent! singer, songwriter, guitarist, and showman.
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